Good morning. I don't do all the different devices like most of you, but my modem also works anywhere in the house and outside too. It's located in the closet in the center of the house.
You all know I am not very swift on electronics but I've gotten a taste of it from both directions. I still have to get help for some things, and yet, I now have to help my husband with the most basic things. He no longer uses a computer but the tv remote has become a daily challenge. We have separate remote controls (1 & 2, can watch different channels at the same time) but it all goes through the same receiver. I am constantly having to go in and remove things that have been set to record. Stuff I would never watch, and he wouldn't either but he surfs through channels a lot and doesn't even realize he has recorded anything. He sits there and pushes all kinds of buttons, just trying to turn on or off, or change channels.
From the other direction, when I have to get my son to help me with something on the computer, I can tell you it is a complete waste of time for him to do the functions himself, while explaining the process to me. Spoken instructions of what someone is doing don't even penetrate my head at all, let alone go in one ear and out the other! I see what all of you are saying, about the person you are teaching hitting wrong buttons and messing things up. I think I have used computers long enough to not do that, and besides my nature is to be reluctant, rather than plowing full speed ahead.
But if I am to learn how to do something, one of two things has to happen. Either the person teaching must have the patience to instruct me step-by-step, while allowing me to actually do the function myself. Or else the teacher must write down step-by-step instructions and leave them with me to try out when no one is standing over me and waiting for me to "get it." The latter method works best for both my son and me so that's what he does now.
Either way, it takes time and patience, and believe me, after two years of helping my husband with very basic daily-living things, I do understand how frustrating it can be, but the reality is that some of us are always going to "glaze over" when someone starts explaining what seems simple--almost intuitive--to the masses. Again, I am reserved and I already know enough to get along with computers and even figure out some things for myself. If your "student" is gung ho and refuses to wait or listen, then you have my sympathy.
Best wishes for today, Kt.