backtodays
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I have an early dilemma. Yes, I'm jumping the gun by asking a year ahead, but my 17 year old son is now a senior in high school. Of course, he is asking ahead of time to see if he can go to Senior Week at the beach at the end of the upcoming school year. I told him we would discuss it the closer it gets to the end of the year as a lot can change by the time.
As a parent, it makes me incredibly nervous to think of letting him go to the beach for a week unsupervised with a group of teenagers. He is a great driver and has been to a driver's education class, but the drive to the beach which will be about 4 hours from our house and back. Plus any driving he will do while he's there plus the whole week unsupervised. Of course, he even has asked about riding with someone else which is another concern in the mix, someone else driving, also a teenager. Teens can get distracted with dire consequences. As far as I know, my son has never smoked, had alcohol or did drugs. I think I would know as we get along great and have a very close relationship. He talks about everything with me, even telling me things I may not always like, but he wants my opinion. Plus, his football coaches really put the fear of what would happen if the players did that into them. He also works out all the time and said he would not want to harm his body or risk his chances of playing football by doing anything illegal. Yes, he's that dedicated LOL. My husband is also a deputy sheriff and he has told him what could happen as well. Not saying he is a saint, but this is where we are. I have to trust him to make good decisions.
About my son he is now a senior, 17, will be 18 in October, (late birthday so started school late), makes A/B Honor Roll every year, never in trouble, starting Varsity Football team and is an overall great kid. I'm blessed. I realize I can't protect him every minute of the day and shortly after he graduates he will be starting college. If he gets a football scholarship, he will most likely be leaving after he graduates next year for summer work outs and this whole issue will be null and void LOL.
I told my husband I would rather not let him go and he asks why not? To make it worse, it came up in conversation that I went to Senior Week as a teenager and now my son wants to know why he can't go if I say no....To end this long novel, I trust my son to make good decisions for the most part, but I know even in the best scenarios, things can happen. So, for parents, would you let your child go or have you let your child go to Senior Week? If you did let them go, how did everything turn out? I'm torn between wanting to say no and wanting to know if I'm being overprotective. Your thoughts?
As a parent, it makes me incredibly nervous to think of letting him go to the beach for a week unsupervised with a group of teenagers. He is a great driver and has been to a driver's education class, but the drive to the beach which will be about 4 hours from our house and back. Plus any driving he will do while he's there plus the whole week unsupervised. Of course, he even has asked about riding with someone else which is another concern in the mix, someone else driving, also a teenager. Teens can get distracted with dire consequences. As far as I know, my son has never smoked, had alcohol or did drugs. I think I would know as we get along great and have a very close relationship. He talks about everything with me, even telling me things I may not always like, but he wants my opinion. Plus, his football coaches really put the fear of what would happen if the players did that into them. He also works out all the time and said he would not want to harm his body or risk his chances of playing football by doing anything illegal. Yes, he's that dedicated LOL. My husband is also a deputy sheriff and he has told him what could happen as well. Not saying he is a saint, but this is where we are. I have to trust him to make good decisions.
About my son he is now a senior, 17, will be 18 in October, (late birthday so started school late), makes A/B Honor Roll every year, never in trouble, starting Varsity Football team and is an overall great kid. I'm blessed. I realize I can't protect him every minute of the day and shortly after he graduates he will be starting college. If he gets a football scholarship, he will most likely be leaving after he graduates next year for summer work outs and this whole issue will be null and void LOL.
I told my husband I would rather not let him go and he asks why not? To make it worse, it came up in conversation that I went to Senior Week as a teenager and now my son wants to know why he can't go if I say no....To end this long novel, I trust my son to make good decisions for the most part, but I know even in the best scenarios, things can happen. So, for parents, would you let your child go or have you let your child go to Senior Week? If you did let them go, how did everything turn out? I'm torn between wanting to say no and wanting to know if I'm being overprotective. Your thoughts?