My life is so topsy turvy right now, I have no idea anymore what day it is. Hubby is going for an aortic valve replacement, done thru leg veins or something. He has to do 3 trips to Duluth, one lasting 2 days (2 hr. drive from here), and we have no transportation ability. He has to go to dentist for teeth cleaning and exam, to make sure no infections, and that has to be next week, (he has not visited a dentist in years). All this within next couple weeks!
Meanwhile, he is eating better, but rarely leaves his bed except to bathroom. I am not a nurse........he even wants to brush teeth in bed, asking for bowl of water, etc. Grrrrr. Sorry, I am frustrated, depressed, upset, and all the rest. He belongs in a hospital or nursing facility, but rejects the idea.
My kids have no idea or understanding of what goes on here. I apologize for ranting away, I just am getting to end of my patience.